The NY Times says Tommy Lanza, 41, died of Covid. So why does his obituary specifically say he didn't?

And even after two years, why is finding anyone under 50 who died of Covid (and wasn't profoundly obese or ill) so hard?

(NOTE: This is the full story for the headline I accidentally emailed yesterday.)

On Tuesday, the New York Times offered what feels like its 12-millionth sob story about Covid, the disease worse than all the others.

This time, the Times wrote about grandparents forced into raising their grandchildren following the Covid deaths of their own children.

As Fam…